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Well, our little spitfire has gone and done it...she turned two this month.  Life is busy busy busy, and thus the lack of posts.  Let's see if I can get this out quickly.

Oh, Malaikah girl.  You bring so much color and life to our days!

Labor Day Weekend, 2016.  Essex.

Too cool.

She's a bright spot between two boys, for sure.  And she LOVES her brothers.  Does EVERYTHING that Kyalo does.  Follows him around the whole day long -- which doesn't, of course, mean they never fight -- like a little shadow.  She's tough, though, and won't let him push her around. She definitely holds her own.  I've seen her push him down or knock him off a chair!  As for Kioko, she loves to give him her little head butt kisses. Lately, she's wanted to give him lots of 'hug-gies' which is sweet.

Her speech has really taken often, and she has a lot of 2 word sentences. "Dat Mines"  "My turn!" "No, MY"  (are you sensing a theme here?)  My favorite is how she says 'Peas' so sweetly when asking for something.  Just recently she has started saying her name "Mika! Mika" (sounds more like she's trying to say 'marker').  She still doesn't call Kyalo anything.  

For some reason, she calls sunglasses, "guys guys".  So here's a little selfie with most of us...

Here are a whole bunch of photos from her 2-year photo shoot.  I couldn't come up with an original idea, so just got the letters for TWO and balloons much like we did last year when she turned one. 

took a while to get her to warm up.

sweet face

The picture taking didn't go exactly as planned, but we had a pretty good time.

The best part though, is that Kyalo wanted to get in on it, and so went and put this outfit on.

Love them.

Kioko slept through the whole event.

We had her 2-year check up last week, and all is well.  She's only grown 3/4 of an inch since March and is now in the 2nd percentile for height.   She is now 31 inches tall and 26 pounds, 8 ounces.  The doctor doesn't seem worried about her height.  I am :) I hope she has a growth spurt one of these days.

She is happy and loves life.  And we love her!

23 months

I need to get this post in before it is too late.

This girl....

turned 23 months and her personality is just shining through each day.  'Though she be but small, she is fierce' pretty accurately sums her up. And one of these days, I'll get that printed for her room.

This has been a pretty crazy month for us.  In case you can't tell from the picture,  we moved at the beginning of August, and things are pretty chaotic (and in disarray) right now.  So, not too many pictures.  Maybe next month?

Malaikah's vocabulary improves every day, and while she still speaks in sort of half words (mo' for more, for example) you really can tell what she's trying to say.

Things she loves --

Music.  I've said it a lot, but it just continues to be so true.  When we're in a store with music she'll start dancing to it.  If you sing to her and stop, she'll say, "Mo'! Mo'! Mo'!" I've got her signed up to do Music Together next month and I'm assuming she's just going to love every second of it.

Biking.  She's been riding Kyalo's old plastic bike up and down our drive way (because of the move we're not on a busy road + we have a longer driveway which has gotten a LOT of use). She is remarkably brave and daring.  She has fallen off the bike (and on to her head) more times than we can count, but after a few tears she'll dust herself off and get back on.  Plus, she just goes zooming down the hill.  She seems fearless.

Books.  We read a lot around here.  Plus story time at library.  She does like reading the same books over and over again, but that makes things easier because then I have them more or less memorized.

Brothers.  She wants to do EVERYTHING Kyalo does, and is constantly asking after Koko.  It won't be long, I think, before she can really take Kyalo down in a wrestling match.  Fun to see her navigate life with her brothers.

Getting her into the carseat has become a battle of epic proportions.  I'll be glad when we're done with the car seat stage (or, at least, I can turn her around).  I'm currently listening to her screeching at Kyalo about something which never ends well, so it isn't always sunshine and rainbows.   She still sleeps well, though lately it is taking her a lot longer to fall asleep.  Hoping it is just a phase.

This smile-y spitfire brings us so much joy.  And, I'm fairly sure, I'm going to have a few heart attacks because of her dare devil antics as she grows older.

22 months

Last week, Malaikah hit 22 months.  Two months until she's two (and all the craziness that comes with it) and it seems hard to believe.  Also hard to believe?  That she's now a big sister!  For a long time -- most of my pregnancy, really -- I was hoping for a girl. I had visions of that sisterly bond (something I don't have), of sharing a room, clothes, dolls, secrets, etc.  I though since they'd be so close in age that that would be important and sweet.  It wasn't until the last few weeks that I became convinced I was having a boy, and began to think that could have its own specialness to it, too.  Malaikah being the only girl -- MY girl -- is so special.  And she will have no trouble keeping up with  her brothers. Of that, I'm sure.

We have one feisty girl on our hands, for sure!

She's independent and confident and knows what she wants.  She's not afraid to push Kyalo around to get what she wants (basically, anything he touches).  It won't be long till she's bossing both Kyalo and Kioko around, ruling the roost!

Because, really, who can say no to this face:

July 10 - 22 months

She can climb into her high chair and car seat.  She's mastered some more words ("hi" & "bye") and some half-words: rhy-der {right there}, diz {this}, eeze {cheese} and so on.  She calls Kioko 'Bay-bee' or 'KoKo' with the cutest upward inflection, so we're all pretty much following suit.

She's working on her mothering instincts.

we will keep working ;)

She LOVES music and to dance, and reading, and imitating Kyalo -- she'll be playing baseball in no time.  She is happy almost all of the time, willing to help me with Kioko getting diapers and the like.

Some other recent pictures.  

Eating her first homemade Fudgescicle (they were amazing - def making them again) on a hot summer day.  She loved it, of course.

 July 17

July 17

those eyes!

These last two photos are from today - I even grabbed the big camera for these shots!  Her eyes are really striking to me - big, brown and soulful.  I love looking at them, esp in pictures like this one above where she's looking directly at the camera.  

Since she came home from my parents' house a week or so ago, I really haven't been able to get over just how huge she seems.  Compared to Kioko's 7 pounds 10 + ounces, her 24 pounds seems like a deadweight.  And her legs seem like tree trunks now compared to his scrawny little sticks.  Funny just how different they are.

I need to go. Can't seem to settle Kioko - back to late night fussiness and feedings -- but other than that little hiccup, we're doing well and Malaikah is doing well. She's going to rock the big sister/middle child roll.  

21 months

Well, this is it.  The last update before our feisty girl is a big sister!  I can't believe it.  (Nor can I believe we're down to 2 weeks!)

This post is delayed, in part, because Malaikah had a 3-day fever situation.  There were no other symptoms (cough, vomit, teeth) but by Saturday she just seemed more lethargic so off we went to the doctor.

Thankfully,  she recovered well!

A bonus of going to the doctor is that she got weighed...24 pounds, 1 ounce.

This month she cut three (or four!) new teeth.  She was a big drooly mess for a few days, but otherwise seemed OK.  She's added a few more words (or half words), 'NO' (with a strong shake of the head and arm crossing)is a new favorite.  'Bo' for her bath tub boat, 'Hi' etc.  It does feel like every day a little more is coming.

The girl has attitude and personality up to the sky.  I offered her some crackers the other day, but she had seen the cookies I'd made over the weekend so of course she wanted those.  Still, I gave her the cracker. She dropped it to the floor and stepped on it to grind it in to a pulp.  Just needed some high heels and black leather pants to really complete the look.

And even still, she's so sweet.  I recently found Kyalo's copy of 'The Little Blue Truck" and read it to her.  That same day, I found her sitting in her chair reading it:

Not the most earth shattering video, but listening to her say 'bee bee bee' for all of the truck's friendly beeps is about the sweetest thing.  Best is when Kyalo and I read it and she says all the beeps.

At a T-Ball game for Kyalo.

 she's ready to get in the game.

I think we're going to have a long relationship with Baseball

 frolicking in a near by yard.  

Sunday best for a recent church service.  The dress is from Kenya

it would be too much to get them to both smile at the same time.

These final days are really bittersweet for me...Malaikah has been such a great baby, and watching her grow and become more independent is such a joy. I'm afraid with the new baby she will get lost in the shuffle of life.  

The adventure is really just beginning!

20 months

Our little ray of sunshine turned 20 months last week.

She is a spitfire with a lot of energy, and attitude.  This month, she learned how to climb down stairs successfully.  This is good news for me because that's one less time I have to carry her.  One baby in my belly is enough! She also now says 'up' which often comes out as 'hup'  and papa has morphed into 'bah-pan' which is too cute.  And if you stretch your imagination a bit, she also says 'go.'  Even without words, we can communicate fairly well.  I taught her to say 'please' in sign language, although it is actually 'more' so it is the Mulandi Sign Language, since that's the only sign Kyalo knew, too.  Ha!  Whatever works!

Mother's day pictures:

little ham!

Still loves books, blocks, balls and her big brother.  I think she is daring and fearless.  She sleeps with books scattered in her crib, plays with the blocks or MagnaTiles endlessly.  Still loves all the carbs, but we're working on veggies and other things.  Oh, and if you need a door shut, she's just the girl to do it!  

I am always amazed by how much she understands.  I can ask her to go get or do something and off she'll march to do it.  People have told me that she seems intelligent and engaged and all other things that makes my mama heart sing.

{20 months - May 10, 2016}

Kyalo started T Ball again a week or so ago, and his first game was this weekend.  Check out the newest black bear:

how old does he look? oh, my.

And Malaikah's ready to play, too.

 kind of looks like a Bobblehead

"Put me in, Coach"

Plenty more T-Ball pictures to come, of course.

This little skirt is one my mom brought back from Kenya in January.  Love it.

It is hard to believe that next month's update is the last one before Baby comes -- just six more Sundays as a family of four.  I think the change will be hard for her.  She'll miss the attention, of course, and having to share more time and things.  The next few months are going to be very interesting!

19 months

Malaikah turned 19 months on the 10th, and she is a joy and a spitfire and keeps us on our toes!

I really think she is fearless -- she loves climbing, slides (even climbing UP the slides), stairs etc.  She's working on walking down stairs and fell down our cement steps the other day.  While she cried, she was not particularly interested in my hugs and kisses and begged to be put down. Once down, off she marched to try again.

She has the sweetest smile, and a wave for everyone. Often she'll just wave her way through the grocery store. Ha!  The best, though, is when Dexter comes home from work. She gets SO excited and happy.  Squealing, clapping, waving, running to the door waving so she's right there when he walks in.  There's really got to be no better way for him to come home.

LOVES to be outside, and if I tell her to go get her shoes or coat (if she hasn't already done it voluntarily) she will start to clap.  

Thankfully, we've had nicer weather (just not today - SNOWING ALL DAY) lately so we've been able to be outside, digging, playing baseball (of course!) riding bikes.  She's got a pretty good handle on this bike that was Kyalo's.  She spends most of her time chasing Kyalo around while he bikes.  I am ready for spring to show up and stick around.

She still doesn't have any solid words.  Makes some funny noises for various animals sounds, but nothing immediately recognizable, says 'Pah-Pah' occasionally for Papa and has recently added 'unh uh' to her list of words.  So, she's got a solid grasp of NO.  Even still, she communicates well by pointing, or clapping when I ask her if she wants something.

Has one good long nap in the morning (which is when I crank out a lot of work for AMHF -- a part time gig I started back in February. If you don't know about it, check it out!), and is generally in bed between 6:30 & 7:00 every night.  Sometimes she gets cranky in the afternoons so I just put her in her crib for a little down time, and she usually comes out of that happy.  She always wakes up happy!

I've mentioned many times that she loves to read, and I always keep a stack of books in her crib. I thought it was so sweet, though, how she tucked this one ('Snuggle Puppy' by Sandra Boynton) under her arm.  Who needs stuffed animals?

On Wednesdays I've been going to a Eucharist service as a local Episcopal church for about a year.  This worked out perfectly because Dexter didn't work on Wednesdays so I could leave the kids.  He has started working now on Wednesdays, so I have to take Malaikah (Kyalo's in school).  Fortunately it is a small, intimate group who is very tolerable of children making messes and noises.  And the priest, Nancy, is great.  Didn't mind having Malaikah 'help' during communion.

We are just about two months away from adding a third to the mix here, and I find it unbelievable. Kyalo will be great -- he's hoping for a sister 'because I like girls' (which is different from what he says about the girls at school, but whatever), but I worry how Malaikah will transition to not being the baby or in the spotlight so much.

We are soaking in these days -- and I'm living in hope that she'll add a few more words between now and July 1!

18 months

It is almost 2 weeks since Malaikah turned 18 months.  These days are just flying by!

These pictures were actually taken pool-side at a hotel in CA where we were for a week in mid-March.  I'm happy to report we all survived (though, just barely) her first plane rides.

After getting back she had her 18 month check-up, and all is well.  Her doctor was pleased with everything she saw, and was not concerned at all that Malaikah still has no words -- 'Mom, mama, mum' being the only exception. She does nod her head vigorously for 'no' but that's it.  I was glad that the doc didn't seem worried.

The good news is she's had a big growth spurt -- all the way from 3rd percentile to 9th percentile! :)  She is now 30 1/4 inches tall, 22 lbs 8 ounces (50th percentile) and has a head circumference of 19 inches which is 94th percentile.  We don't go back again until September -- with a new baby in tow, which seems hard to believe -- for her two year check up.

Other things:

- she gave up nursing about two days before we went to California, which worked out nicely since Dexter and I went away, kid free, for a night.  (First time!  It was great!).  I'm a little bit sad about it, but 18 months is a good run, and of course I'll be starting up again soon.

- since she has no words, her strongest form of communication is screaming.  it is not charming, and I'm VERY ready for it to be over.  It seems to hit especially when I'm making dinner.

- she is definitely coming into her own--very independent, determined to do things herself/her way. She is a strong willed child, for sure, though interestingly, people often comment that she is so chill.

-- Loves books and music.  Whenever we play music she starts to bust a move.  Can't help but love it.

serious dancer

--  changing her diaper is a challenge of epic proportions--the squirming, screaming, fighting, running away.  I'm trying to decide if we should start potty training, but I don't think any of us are ready for that just yet.  Maybe this summer.

Even still, she's fun and loving and engaged in everything.  She'll wave at most people -- and runs for joy whenever Dexter comes home from work (or from a trip to the garage) -- she loves food and Kyalo might be her favorite person (except when he has something that she wants).  She brings us so much joy.

Here she is 'painting' with Kyalo's paints.  Don't worry - there's no real paint in there, just dried paints from Kyalo.  I'm not quite ready to let her loose with paints, and this kept her happy anyway, so that's OK.

My mom and Malaikah reading by the pool.  One of my favorite pictures.

Lastly,  I finally took a picture of the baby bump at 23 weeks.  It looks really small to me here, and I think I've popped out since then.  I think I'm 25 on Wednesday.  I see the doctor on Friday--3 months from when I'll probably schedule the C-Section.  Time to talk names!  This pregnancy has gone fast so far, and I have no complaints.  Just general tired-ness.  I've started having a little bit of acid reflux/heart burn lately which could mean I'm having a boy, or a baby with a lot of hair (or both?). I can't remember what the theory is.  I'm worried Malaikah isn't going to handle the big transition well. Time will tell!

Here's hoping I'm back with a bit of an update from CA and then Easter.  Before the next holiday hits!

17 months

Oh, hello.

I'm sad that I just can't seem to blog much these days.  Even doing these monthly posts seems a stretch, but I love them, and they serve as such a great reminder that I hate to completely give up.  Yet.

Life has been really busy.  Really good, just full.

Here's the surprising news...

2.10.2016

That's right, baby #3 is making an appearance at the end of June (via C-Section again).  The day Malaikah turned 17 months I had my big anatomy scan ultra sound -- a special trip to Portland for that -- and baby looks great.  Growing exactly as he/she should, has all legs and limbs and so on.  The one thing we discussed is that there's a small 'spot' on the heart which the doctor was not concerned about, but she said that it COULD (if I use Dr. Google) indicate Downs Syndrome.  Since all other features of the baby look normal she wasn't concerned - about Downs or about the health of the heart.  So I won't be, either.  I'm feeling grateful that I have had relatively no sickness - just exhaustion - and an easy pregnancy so far.

This Wednesday marks 20 weeks and I have taken exactly zero baby bump photos.  #thirdchild  :)

Now on to our Malaikah girl.  Oh, we love her....but she keeps us on our toes!  She has a STRONG personality.  For a little while if I told her 'no' to something she would throw herself on the floor and flail around sobbing.  Drama much?  That seems to be mostly behind us now, thankfully, but I won't be surprised if it shows up again at 4 or 14.

she couldn't really move.  but at least she looks cute.

She still has no words.  Just recently she started shaking her head 'no' so at least we have that as a form of communication.  If I offer her something she can -- emphatically -- tell me no.  

Earlier this month she had a 24-hour ish stomach bug and it really seems to have taken a lot out of her. It seemed she was on a food-strike for a week or more, even though the sickness had long since vacated her system.  I'm thankful that her appetite is returning, but wish I could convince her to eat veggies more.  Even when I sneak them into things she's on to me and spits them out!  She has no problem with fruits and anything carbohydrate.  So, she won't starve.  Oh, and she still nurses a little bit - once before bed and once when she wakes most days.

Continues to LOVE to read -- she has a big pile of books in her crib, and I will often find her reading after nap.  Or find her plopped in the bean bag chair reading.  She's always bringing us books to read.

 after nap

The only thing she likes more than reading is music and dancing.  Kyalo has a CD player in his room, and she will run to his room and stand and screech at it until I come and turn it on.  Then she'll happily dance and clap the whole way through.  This is my chance to get things done!

Malaikah loves to throw things.  She will throw all her diapers down the stairs -- thankfully Kyalo thinks it is fun to try to catch them at the bottom.  Or a ball around the house. Or food out of her high chair. 

A new development right now -- and one that I hope is very short lived -- is that she screeches, often for unknown reasons.  We have had a few long days where I've just not been able to figure out what she needed/wanted/if something was wrong.  Getting good sleep is definitely essential to the screeching being less.  I do hope that she has learned to say a few simple words by the time the baby comes (she will be just under 22 months!) to help us all know what's going on in that head of hers.

 this doll was a Christmas gift. I love watching her pick it up and cradle it, etc.  It is very sweet. Until she tosses it on the ground haphazardly.  

drawing with big bro.  She'll be an artist just like him! (and Papa)

a rare walk in the woods 

it was a few days late, but here she is smiling for 17 months 

And lastly, a little picture of Kyalo.  We were down in MA at the end of January, and so of course Kyalo and I headed to the local YMCA for their open gym time.  Usually he spends and hour or more running the trampoline track into the foam pit.  This trip he tried a bunch of new things, including the rope swing.  He loved it!  I tried to get him to do the balance beams, but they're pretty high, and after hopping on he said, "I'll do that when I'm five."  Good thing we're just a couple of months away!