Sunday, July 6, 2014

30 weeks

Today marks 30 weeks of this pregnancy, which means there's just about 10 to go.  This pregnancy is zooming by, that's for sure.  Given all that we've been doing the last few months, it has been hard to keep track.

I mentioned before that this pregnancy has felt so different from my pregnancy with Kyalo.  I'm so aware of the baby all the time.  He or she is really, really active, moving and kicking and making his/her presence known.  I feel big and uncomfortable, and have to do the dreaded 3-point turn at night in order to change positions.

Another way this pregnancy has been different is that I've been sick a lot.  Just random things - fever one time, an awful stomach bug for about 48 hours another, and then, most recently, Hand-Foot-Mouth disease which I think I picked up at a church picnic.  If you've ever had it, you know the pain and suffering I went through with that!  I hope all these illnesses don't have an adverse affect on baby.

I got a couple of pictures yesterday, back in my parents' beautiful back yard.



I had my first appointment with the local OB's office last week.  Turns out that they don't do VBACs, so if I want to deliver at the hospital that's a mile from my house, I'll have a C-Section scheduled the week before my due date (September 14).  I'm sad about this - I like the idea of at least laboring a bit - but not sure I really want to travel 30 or more minutes for appointments at other hospitals and to deliver.  So, we'll see what happens.  Other than that, I do hear good things about the practice.

As you can tell, we still don't know what we're having.  Kyalo is still mostly adamant about having a sister, though recently he said, "I want a brudder AND a sister!"  and someone asked me if he was seeing into the future.  I don't think he is.  One more seems like enough for me!!  What do you think I'm having?  I really have no motherly instinct on this.

Lastly, I got this great picture of Dexter and Kyalo yesterday afternoon as well.

July 5, 2014  Kyalo, 3 years, 3 months

Saturday, July 5, 2014

grand tour

OK, so grand tour is definitely a misnomer. This is really more like the before tour, the oh-boy-what-have-we-gotten-ourselves-into tour of our new abode in Maine.

These shots were taken quickly yesterday morning, a grey day in Maine, so they aren't the greatest, but will give you a glimpse into what we're working with.

First up: the kitchen

This is already a work in progress, as you can see. Dexter was in Maine for a week before us, and in the house, so he was able to do a lot of sanding and painting of the wood cabinets.  With 24 cabinets/drawers there's a LOT to be done.  Sanding, painting, painting, painting, hanging, adding hardware.  It is more work than either of us really thought through!

 please note the dishwasher - moving up in the world!

That green wall? Formica!!  If you have any idea how to cover it/get rid of it, let me know!

Love this little nook.  There's not a whole lot of natural light coming in through those windows, though, so we're glad to lighten the place up with white paint.  The stove and microwave reside to the left of this picture.

Off of the kitchen to one side is the dining room and a bathroom with a shower.

again, not a whole lot of natural light here, and that light fixture hangs really really low.  Even still, we don't have much in the way of plans to redo it.

the previous owners already redid this bathroom, so I think we'll leave it as is.

The Laundry Room/Office.  
I'm pretty excited about having a dryer in the house!  We'll try to find a desk to put under the shelves there and make that our office space.  

On the other side of the kitchen is the living room.

complete with a pouty baby, and our itty bitty couch and coffee table!

And then, the entry way (foyer?)  that they've recently drywalled and primed. We're working on a paint color.

That stove in the corner is a pellet stove, to keep us warm through the winter

For some perspective, here's how it looked when we first saw the house:



Much, much better, no?

The stairs are definitely a work in progress, something the previous family is still working on, I think.  Or maybe they've just decided they've done enough and will leave them as is:

that works, right?  :)

Upstairs is a little quirky because the house was originally a two family home, so there's the remnants of  a full kitchen there.  The previous couple used it for their master bath in a way, so I guess that's what we'll do for now, too.  




That's the master bedroom.  The previous couple had a King Size bed in there, so even though it looks small, there's plenty of space. Our full size is going to look puny!  The maroony-brown paint color is too dark/heavy for us, so we're going with a light grey wall and a dark blue rug, which will be delivered Thursday morning.  In the meantime, we're camping out in Kyalo's room!


 Here's what I'm calling the powder room.  We (Dexter) will likely paint this grey as well, just to tie it in  with the master.  

A narrow, mustard yellow bathroom. At least it has a claw-foot tub!  No plans for this room yet.

The nursery:

Mike & Deb, the owners, are priming this for us because the room was a deep pinky-purple color:

I'm not sure this picture does it justice, but at least you get a sense of it.  Since the wood floors are painted a silver/grey color, we're going to go with a pale green color in there.  I'm hoping it will feel calm and peaceful! {And, of course, that the baby will SLEEP in there :) }

Rooms not photographed:  Kyalo's room - we're all living there right now so it is basically chaos - the attic room, which we think we'll turn into some kind of guest room.  

I have a lot of dreams for this house, but realistically, a) we're renters so don't want to spend all our money here, b) we're having a baby in 10 weeks, c) Dexter works full time and Kyalo doesn't play independently so there's not much I'll be able to do.  So with limited resources I hope we can make this place feel like HOME and OURS.  Even if we're only here a year or so.

Now, who wants to come help Dexter paint??

Friday, July 4, 2014

slip n slide

Happy 4th! I just downloaded pictures from the camera, and found some that Dexter took from last week of Kyalo on the slip-n-slide in Grandma's yard.  It has been a long time since he's made an appearance here, so I thought I'd just share some summer time joy with you.




 this face belies the fact that he can be a real terror (or at least, 'terrible three'!!!) these days

cute little pot belly

Hope you're all having wonderful festivities!!

Thursday, June 19, 2014

summatime!

It seems hard to believe that it is the middle of June already.  My mom's already lamenting the fact that we're going to start loosing daylight after this weekend.  I'm trying to focus on glorious, sun-filled (snow free!!!) days and soak up as much outside time as possible.  Today, however, we're camped inside as Kyalo's fighting a fever ('I think I'm still a little bit sick') so I thought it would be a good chance to blog before too much time passes.

At the end of May we took a break from the packing and moving craziness and dashed off to California to see my brother and his family.  These once-a-year visits are definitely too spread out and I hope in the future we'll be able to squeeze in a second trip.

These trips are nothing exciting, just good time and food with family.  My parents stay at a hotel with a pool, and we pretty much take it over.  The kids, especially Campion, could stay in all day I think.

Random things we did:  celebrate Campions 10th birthday, swim, swim, swim, I had lunch with Noelle, the adults had dinner out, the big kids had two sleep overs with Grandma and Grandpa which included a round of mini golf.  I think Kyalo will love that in a few years!

Enough talk. . . picture time!

Kyalo loved this lion outfit. Wore it all the time!

I made a chocolate cake for Campion's birthday.  Had to transport it from the house to the hotel the second it was finished, though, so the icing didn't set and was sliding all over the place. Still tasted good, though.

 Campion, Kyalo, Vivienne (4)
Vivi

And lots of pool side shots, since that's where we spent most of our time.

 Abby
 Caroline, in her favorite spot - the hot tub
 Gma and Kyalo

 Jack
Vivi on Adam's iPhone

My parents had a friend live with them in the fall for a few months. She moved back home to Santa Barbara in December, and joined us for a day at the pool.  Always nice to run into friends!

my parents with Kate

And Kate was kind enough to take picture of our unruly crew.

June 2014

Til next summer, guys!

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

the house

As soon as it became pretty clear that we would be moving to Maine, Dexter began scouring the internet for suitable housing.  With a baby on the way, I was hoping for at least 3 bedrooms, possibly even four.  A yard would be a nice touch, and, of course, a nice big kitchen.  I wasn't asking too much, was I??

We realized pretty quickly that the rental market in the area was pretty non existent, but buying isn't really feasible or appealing at this point, either.  To say our options were slim is an understatement.  I quickly realized that I was going to have to put most of my hopes/dreams/wishes aside and just be happy we found something in our budget.

Dexter searched and searched and found a few things for us to look at on a visit in May.  Those four places were. . . . bleak.  I left Maine that day practically in tears, and fairly confident that we would not have a house lined up prior to finishing up in New Jersey.  I was pretty anxious about the whole thing, but not really sure what to do about it.

One day, in a fit of desperation, Dexter emailed a couple of local real estate agents and asked if they might have anything at all that we could rent for a year.  Long, long story short(er) one of the realtors connected us to a family that was planning on moving out of their house and renting it in August.  I emailed immediately, got pictures and knew this was the house.




We got back up to look at it a couple of weeks ago, and to sign on the dotted line.  We can't move in until after the 4th of July, so I'll be in MA while Dexter begins his training at the dental clinic next week.

Since we are just renting, we can't make major changes, but we can paint the walls and even kitchen cabinets.  Their paint colors are darker than we'd choose, so we're looking forward to brightening the whole place up.  In fact, we were at a paint store today!

Some perks to this house…

- a four minute walk to the dental clinic and town library
- across the street from the park
- a fenced in back yard that has a half court basketball court (for now that will be a bike riding spot, I guess)
- 3 bedrooms, and an attic room that we can use as a guest room/misc room
- a washer AND a dryer (haven't had a dryer since 2005 when I moved to Kenya. Feels huge to me)
- a dishwasher
- 2 car garage which I think we'll love in the winter time!

And these are just the things I can think of off the top of my head!

To say I feel beyond grateful and blessed is putting it lightly.  

Come visit sometime!!

Just be sure to come with a paintbrush.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

25 weeks

As seems to be the case for us these days, we have been non stop action.  Point in case:  in the last week, we have flown from California to Massachusetts, driven to NJ, packed everything up, driven to MA, and then yesterday we took everything to Maine to the house we'll be living in. We can't move in just yet as the folks living there don't move out til later in the month, but they were kind enough to allow us to store our things there. Whew.

So, I have a lot to recap here, but before too much time gets away from me, I wanted to get another pregnancy photo up.  We have been so busy, and things have been so chaotic that I haven't gotten nearly as many of these pictures as I had planned.   I finally made it happen yesterday, and I'm so glad I did!


25 weeks
June 9, 2014

I'm not sure what is more striking - my growing belly, or my parents' beautiful yard!

I feel. . .huge. Large and in charge, for sure!  I'm thankful, though, that this pregnancy has been relatively easy. I really have no complaints!  This baby is VERY active.  I was reading the other night and had the book propped on my belly, and the baby kicked so hard that the book jumped!  I really don't remember being aware of Kyalo moving around nearly as much.  This makes me a little nervous - Kyalo is active enough for me, I'm beginning to wonder if this baby is going to keep us very, very busy!

It is hard to believe that I am already six months.  Just a few more months and we'll be meeting this new little person who will steal our hearts and change our lives.  

Kyalo loves to kiss and pat my belly.  He calls the baby 'my baby' and recently asked, 'please I hold my baby?'  I had to explain to him that he has to wait a little while for that still.  I think he's going to be a great big brother - though I think he might have a hard time waiting for the baby to be a playmate/friend for him!  

Things are really coming together for us -- a job for Dexter, a house that we love that we move into next month, etc etc -- and so continue to trust and hope that the rest of the pregnancy will go smoothly and all will be well on delivery day.

Sunday, May 25, 2014

the graduate

It has taken 27 months, many hours of sweat & tears (more mine than Dexter's probably) too many cups of coffee to count, and lots of love and support from friends and family to be able to finally say:

HE DID IT!!!!!!

On Friday, May 16, Dexter had his last day of dental school.

Kyalo was pretty excited about that.


But of course, no one was more thrilled about this than Dexter.  It was a bit of a race to the finish - and he even wondered if he might have to stick around for a few extra days to finish things up, but thankfully, he didn't!  He is truly, wonderfully FREE.  No more books and teachers' dirty looks and all that.  It wasn't easy, nor was it fun, but we both know that it was the best thing for our family's future.

My parents came down for the graduation ceremony on Tuesday, which was great.  I have to admit, I got a little teary when I saw all those students walking into the auditorium.  So much hard work represented there! I'm so proud that Dexter was walking among those saints.

After the ceremony we were able to get some photos with our 'Fab Four' group, and their families.


And, of course, the four themselves.

those are smiles of JOY (and perhaps relief, too)

I'd left my camera at home, but my mom was able to get this decent photo of us on her iPhone.

May 20, 2014
Happy, Happy Day!

It was, of course, chaos and craziness after the ceremony, so saying our goodbyes felt rushed and unfinished.  I'm hoping for a reunion with the Fab Four sometime in the future.  Eventually Joel will be in Florida (after his wife finishes a dental hygienist program in NJ next May), so I nominate him to host us - preferably in dead of winter so we can escape the Maine misery.  :)  

As for us, we're on vacation now.  We go to California on Thursday, then back to NJ to pack up and move out.  No house secured yet in Maine, but we have a very good prospect for a house that is just a four minute walk from the dental clinic.  We go and check that out on Tuesday so say a prayer that all works out.  If we get it, I'll post a picture here in the weeks to come.  Dexter begins orientation June 16, and a very new and different chapter is started for us.